Staying attractive in a relationship has so many components and sadly it is something some women fail to achieve. However, while dating they make sure make-up, perfume and hair are in place. After getting comfortable in a relationship, she may pay less attention to her mind, body, appearance and surroundings.
This is a definite no!
Ladies can stay attractive in a relationship when she has a life of her own and when she isn’t fully depending on her partner to be her everything. You want him to be your lover, girlfriend, and shopping buddy when you can create that outside of him, therefore giving each other space to do what you love and build healthy friendships outside of each other.
Don’t neglect your self-development, do that course you always wanted to do, widen your scope, educate yourself about various topics like sports and politics, this will create engaging conversation and keep improving on the things that matter to you. Take charge of your happiness, do the things that make you happy even if you must do them alone. Don’t forget to exercise.
Send messages during the day and call to see how his day is going. Give each other space, this can be very rewarding when you come together again. Be his safe place where he is celebrated and free to be vulnerable. Don’t constantly find fault and learn to listen, this will be a bonus. Be his support system! This is how you stay attractive in a relationship.
Written by Sharon Douglin
Barbados